Sunday, December 7, 2008

My Precious Moments

Family, fun, and laughter are instrumental to my cherished childhood memories. One of my dearest memories is from a family reunion we had when I was a small child. I remember our pulling into my Aunt Pat's rugged driveway, and the small heart inside my chest was giddy with excitement. We had finally arrived at the long awaited Hawley Family Reunion. With my hands, I lifted my body off of the slippery seat, and peeked over the dashboard to behold the joyful sight. There beneath the lush green trees of summer, I saw my family waving happily. It took no longer than two minutes for my brothers and me to depart from the ancient, yellow Chevrolet Caprice. With mom scurrying behind, we ran to join the fun.
My brothers and I were immediately smothered by bear hugs and moist loving kisses. Those were specail hugs and kisses that only came from jubilant aunts and precious grandmothers. They pinched our sun-kissed cheeks and gasped about how much we had grown. Aunt Pat, in her yellow sun-dress and lacey hat, took me up in her arms and ran her decorated fingers through my golden hair. She spoke to me in sweet tones and asked me questions with her eyes full of wonder. My crooked smile must have stretched two sizes larger with every silly question she invited.
In the distance, I heard children laughing and splashing, and instantaneously remembered the
giant, blue pool I have been waiting to swim in all summer. Quickly, I changed into my pink and green floral bathing suit and rushed up the weather-beaten steps of the wood deck. My feet never stopped moving when they reached the top step. The impatience within me was too great to control, and I spang into the cool paradise of the humid day. My thirsty skin soaked up its bountiful moisture and became alive again. Lingering in the pool for hours, I played childish games with my cousins. We played Marco Polo and tossed the colorful, inflated beach ball until our stubby fingers became crinkled.
After swimming, I changed back into my white t-shirt and my pink overalls. When I walked outside, the aroma of barbecue sauce was so thick that my tummy growled with hunger. I followed the delicious scent and found Uncle Joe grilling juicy hamburgers and plump hotdogs. To me, he looked amusing, standing there with his tiny apron tightly hugging his big, circular belly. When he noticed my presence, he bent down, and with a generous smile, he handed me the first steamy burger. I smiled back with enormous gratitude and hurried to the old, faded picnic table to devour my scrumptious gift. The zesty sauce dripped down onto the palms of my hands, and red ketchup smudged my satisfied face.
Many kids do not see family reunions as treasured memories, but this one holds a special place in my grown-up heart. It was a simple time in my, now hectic, life. Family has always been very important to me, and perhaps that is why I cherish this memory so much. It is a commemoration of my irreplaceable Aunt Pat and Uncle Joe and several other relatives who have passed on. I enjoyed all the excitement, laughter, and fun of that summer day at the Hawley Family Reunion.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

This Little Light Of Mine

Yesterday, I had the honor of decorating a three foot christmas tree with Katelyn. She is my bestest little buddy in the world. Although she was hoping for a pink one, this green one suited her just fine. She is such an amazing pleasure to be around. Her gray-blue eyes thrive with joy! When I pulled the tiny tree out of the box she exclaimed, "Is that it?!" Ha Ha! I think she was hoping for a whopper, but then again, so was I. ;) We had so much fun dressing our tree with sparkling snowmen, glittery globes, silly santas, and twisted candycanes. The ornaments were still in their wrappers and she was so impatient while I recovered them from their package. She twitled her finders and bounced her legs. Finally, she just started to unwrap them herself. She tore them from their wrappers with excited force, sending staples flying. When it was all done I turned down the light switch and she gasped at the beautiful sight of our little Charlie Brown tree. It does my heart a world of good to see that she finds joy in the smallest things. Her sweet mommy taught her well ;)

Monday, December 1, 2008

God's Snow White Painting

My heart became giddy when I peeked out my frosted window this morning and beheld a such a beautiful sight. I wasted no time throwing on my big furry jacket, planting my creamy white boggin upon my head, and stretching matching gloves over my excited fingers. I yanked a pair of socks from the drawer and wrapped my rainbow scarf around my hardly-exposed neck. Cradling the camera, out the door I went! The fresh snowflakes decorated my buddled body and made me smile all the more. Instead of explaining God's snow white painting, I will just show you...











Sunday, November 30, 2008

Dos & Donts



Don't eat only your fruits and veggies.
Do have days when you can be hopelessly addicted to chocolate.

Don't just mumble the lyrics to a song.
Do learn the words you silly goose!

Don't always cover your face with make-up.
Do go for a natural look, because honey, You Are Beautiful!

Don't wear low cut shirts and short skirts to get a guys attention.
Do make him work for it girl!

Don't eat pizza with a fork. Ha! I don't get why people do this.
Do use your hands, have a race to see who can eat the most, get completely messy and sick!

Don't just hum your most favorite songs while you are driving!
Do sing them! Sing them like there is no tomorrow! Yeah, the person beside you at the red light may look at you funny, but deep down they so want to do it too!

Don't diet like a mad woman! The first 3 letters of that word make me uncomfortable (Diet)
Do eat enough to be full and marry, my friend

Don't skinny dip!
Do chunky dunk!

Ok Ok….A Serious Moment…

Don't take the touch of your love for granted. Please.
Do hold your love every opportunity that you get. It is an opportunity that you could never have again, and be grateful that you have that opportunity in the first place

Don't kiss in the moment of lustful passion…
Do kiss in the moment of love…the moment when your heart seems to be 5 sizes bigger…the moment when it feels like your heart just might burst out of your chest…the moment when tears of joy swell up in your eyes because you are so grateful to have found someone so special

Don't be jealous of the love and relationship that someone may have
Do be sincerely happy for them. Just a moment ago I saw something that a guy did for his girlfriend and it made me smile to myself. There is true love all around. It is so very beautiful =] If you are lonely, there IS love. Just be patient, my friend.

Ok…back to the sillies…

Don't be sad that you can't wear flip flops in the winter
Do be glad that you can wear cute socks with monkeys and flamingos. Heck! While you are at it have a sock race! Slide down the hallway and run into the wall at the end! I promise the embarrassment will only last a moment

Don't be utterly disappointed when the top scoop of your ice cream cone falls off and hits the floor
Do use the 5 Second Rule! Pick that yummy ball of ice cream up and stick it back on top! A little dirt and hair never hurt anyone. Ha! That's totally gross, but trust me…I have seen it done with whip cream

Don't think you are too old to trick or treat!
Do dress up no matter what age you are! What is cuter than an 80 year old man dressed like a lady bug or a 75 year old woman dressed like Sandy from Grease? Come on! That's cuteness!


Don't get road rage while driving
Do tape down your middle finger…

Don't simply throw your foil gum wrappers away!
Do make them into something! I'm talking Origami, Man! A Goose! Make a goose!


Don't be mature 100% of the time
Do be a silly goose, a moron, a man-child, a cuckoo or whatever crazy term that may tickle your fancy!


Don't watch scary movies alone!
Do watch them with a friend that won't laugh at your screams or mind you cutting off the circulation in their arm


Don't rush. You could miss so many beautiful things.
Do take your time. Take time to stop and look at the blessings around you. Take time to notice the gold, red, and plum leaves that are so very gorgeous. Take time to look at the stars and think about the amazing God that put them there. Take time for someone who needs you.



Lastly…

Don't get lost in who you aren't!
Do find who you are, and love everything about what you find. -even the slightly crazy parts =)

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Lessons From A Mother

The very gifted Emily Dickinson once said, "A mother is one to whom you hurry when you are troubled." For me, this sweet declaration is exceedingly true. Throughout my life, my willing mother has always been there for me. Through good and bad she has always been by my side.
She is strong, diligent, and loving, as every great mother should be.
My mother's amazing strength has always baffled me. When I was a small child, my mother was trapped inside of an abusive relationship. She was tore down, bruised, and broken; and no one extended a helping hand to her. My little eyes witnessed all of the horrifying pain that she went through and every emotional tear that slide down her face. She would scream and cry out to God, and one day I knew He had heard her. My mom became amazingly strong and awesomely brave. She had always defended her helpless children, but then she began defending herself. After much toil, she finally broke away from that dreadful relationship. God has her infinite strength to make it on her own and to endeavor through so many rough times that came her way.
Without a man in the house to provide for my mother and her six children, she was forced to work long, grueling hours. Her exhausted body would stumble into our deteriorating house night after night, only to find that there was more work to be done. There were numerous occasions when my brothers and I would find her quietly crying while she was doing dishes or sweeping the floor. I cannot describe the tremendous sorrow and grief that I felt for her inside my small heart. With six starving tummies to fill, the money that she worked so hard for did not make it very far, and my mother would be on her frail knees again desperatly praying for the Lord to help us. She was internally wired with determination and a fighting will to keep going.
Although my mother possessed a great strength, and the ability to work extremely hard, she had a love that was above and beyond anything I have ever known. Only the tender uncondional love of a mother could have mustered up the strength to work so hard to keep us alive. No matter what life handed to us, she made sure that her children knew that she loved them more than anything in the world. She made the well-being of her children the number one priority in her struggle for life. My mother tried desperatly to protect my bothers and I from the harsh world and all the bad people in it. She was our sheild, and in some cases, our knight in shining armor.
Today, my wonderful mom is blessed for more that she ever dreamed she could be. She has a loving husband who provides for her, a beautiful home that she can call her own, and six precious grandchildren that she adores. Mom taught me that a woman should not accept anything less than respect from a man. She taught me that hard work and consistent determination can get me somewhere in life, even though it is not easy. Above all, I learned that love conquers all, and my mother made it through everything by the grace and mighty power of God.